Counselling

I am passionate about helping people heal, grow, change and become more fully themselves. It is my desire that you will experience belonging, purpose, new strategies and hope from me as your therapist.

I hold a Master of Arts in Counselling from the University of British Columbia and am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) in good standing with the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors. You want up-to-date research backed strategies to support your healing and growth and I want to provide you the best treatment. Therefore, I am immersed in research and current literature on trauma, and child & adolescent development; I love reading and learning, so this works out well.

Primarily, I work with children and youth who have been impacted by trauma (complex or one-time occurrences), had attachment disruptions (adoption, foster care or complex family dynamics), are struggling with big emotions (often anger), behaviours and regulating them, anxiety, and social skills. Often, these challenges show up all together and create chaos in the home and school.

I also work with a variety of concerns with all ages, including adults, with complex mental health struggles ranging from anxiety, depression, OCD, perfectionism, body image & disordered eating and stress management.

In addition to private practice I work on a trauma-informed team for Complex Trauma Resources supporting children and families who have been adopted or are in foster care. I also lead workshops and presentations in the areas of complex trauma, blocked care (when you are going through the motions of parenting but your heart isn’t in it), blocked trust, and child development.


Other things you might care about:

I founded a positive body image non-profit organization, Free To Be Talks, after my MA thesis to help youth across North America – over 2000 students received the curriculum. In 2020 I stepped down from the board to co-found Care For Women, a not-profit charitable organization that supports new mothers in the complex and challenging stages of new motherhood. As I primarily work with children who have been impacted by trauma, I believe one of the most preventative ways to support and resource a family is when children are most vulnerable, which is when they are newborns.

I am mother to four children of my own, biological and adoptive, and am passionate about child development from in-utero through adolescence. The experiences we have throughout our life, beginning in childhood, have profound lifelong echoes as we grow older. Understanding how the brain and nervous system work provides tremendous hope and healing for positive change and growth. I have experienced it first hand in my own family life and want the same for you.

About counselling services

  • Sessions

    The number of sessions may vary depending on your needs and expectations. This is something we will discuss and determine together.

  • Payment

    Most forms of payment are accepted: cash, interac e-transfer, credit-card and cheque. An electronic invoice will be sent out following the session and payment for the session is expected right after the appointment.

  • Insurance

    Check with your extended healthcare provider to determine if Registered Clinical Counsellors are covered. Extended insurance plans are not billed directly.

  • Cancellation

    Your session time is reserved just for you. Sessions cancelled with more than 24 hours do not require payment. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours notices are payable at 50% of the normal fee. Missed sessions, without notice, are billed at the normal fee.

Previous presentation topics:

What’s all the fuss about complex trauma

Blocked care + blocked trust & parenting children with trauma

Complex care and intervention

Social media and children who have experienced trauma

Helping kids become more resilient

Nurturing resilient kids: understanding the roots of body image issues and how to effectively help

Learning to like myself

Becoming media savvy parents

Reading, writing and sharing knowledge and tools with others are passions of mine. I have been invited to speak at schools, PAC parent presentations, agencies, in-person and online conferences, workshops & panels, and podcasts and radio.

Selected writing:

Regehr, R. (2024, March). What is Motherhood Nature. Retrieve here

Regehr, R. (2024, January). Understanding How Complex Trauma Impacts Development. Retrieve here

Regehr, R. & Geddes, C. (2023, December). Navigating Trauma: Understanding, Recognizing and Healing. Retrieve here

Regehr, R. (2023, November). How Parents Impact Child Development and How To Build Strong Bonds. Retrieve here

Regehr, R (2023, May). The Importance of Mom Friends Postpartum. Retrieve here

Regehr, R. (2023, May). How To Help Mom Burnout: It’s Time to Stop Calling Mom’s Superheroes. Retrieve here.

Regehr, R. Y., Owens, R. L., Cox, D. W., & Clayton, C. C. (2020) Piloting Free To Be: A positive body image program for adolescents. The Counseling Psychologist, 48(6), 774-800. Retrieve here

Regehr, R. (2019, January). Why I Apologized To My Mom For Telling Her She Looked Young. Huffington Post. Retrieve here

Regehr, R. & Owens, R. (2018). “Free To Be,” an embodiment program created for youth. In J. Kwee, & H. McBride (Eds.), Embodiment and eating disorders: Theory, research, prevention and treatment. New York, NY: Routledge.

Regehr, R. (2018, June). It Takes Others To Help Undo the Wounds “Self Love” Can’t Heal. Huffington Post. Retrieve here

Selected media:

Care For Women - The importance of supporting new mothers Watch here on Global News, April 2024

Supporting new mothers - Care For Women. StarFM Radio Interview, April 2023

Abbotsford postpartum mentorship program - Abby News. Read here. April 2023

The PACE lab. Parenting In The Trenches podcast. Listen here, February, 2022

Adoption: Using Dr. Hughes’ P.A.C.E. model to help kids heal from trauma. Parenting In The Trenches podcast. Listen here February, 2022

Why parents and kids need to be more accepting of their post-pandemic bodies. CBC Vancouver’s “The Early Edition” Radio Show. Print article retrieve here July, 2021

Piloting Free To Be: A Positive Body Image Program For Adolescents. The Counseling Psychologist podcast. Listen here July, 2020

Bless this mess: Kids shouldn’t worry about how they look and neither should their parents. Read here on CBC. March 2020

Loving Your Body - Stenberg College talk, February 2020

Understanding beauty and body image. Impossible Beauty Podcast. Listen here May, 2019